This episode's headline: AIDS Alarm. The guests include LESTER GRUMMONS, Funeral Director; Dr. JOSEPH BOVE, American Association of Blood Banks; VIRGINIA APUZZO, National Gay Task Force; In Atlanta (Facilites: WETV-TV): Dr. JAMES CURRAN, Centers for Disease Control. Byline: In New York: CHARLAYNE HUNTER-GAULT, Correspondent; In Washington: JIM LEHRER, Associate Editor; LEWIS SILVERMAN, Producer; MAURA LERNER, Reporter